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Gay, Lesbian, bi relationships are okay!!

September 20, 2009
By ~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
"One day there will be a chance that you will say that you love one person and really mean it, but every day one person is at least loving you now." - Me


I don't understand why most people in the world don't like people of the same sex to be in a relationship. I'm bisexual myself and people come up to me and start critizing me because i am, but they dont understand that I'm special in my own way just like other ppl, no matter who they are.

Where I live the main population is gay, lesbian and bi people. In front of my school there are even people writing signs saying "God hates America and Fags are not welcomed here!" I am getting so sick of it! This is making us not want to come out and actually be us.

The government has no right to make laws saying that gays can not be married. God and government does not mix people! Get it straight! Some of yur friends might actually be gay, lesbian or bi, and would u not be there friend because of it? If you would, then you are messed up and not worthy of their friendship.



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on Jun. 3 2010 at 5:47 pm
RipponLeaEnergise BRONZE, Clayton, Other
1 article 4 photos 76 comments

Favorite Quote:
"how wonderful it is that nobody has to wait a single moment before starting to improve the world"

Anne Frank

thats awesome. im the same [gay] and ive told everyone, and they all accepted me. right on for not changing who u are!!!

on Jun. 3 2010 at 5:46 pm
RipponLeaEnergise BRONZE, Clayton, Other
1 article 4 photos 76 comments

Favorite Quote:
"how wonderful it is that nobody has to wait a single moment before starting to improve the world"

Anne Frank

yeah, luckydutchess. theres a website called godhatesfags and its disgusting, because im gay, its sooo wrong. why cant everyone accept they way they are. it would be soo much easier on gblt people. im 15 and ive told everybody about my trueself and they all accepted me. im happily ina realtionship and no one bags me at school. more people have to know, its ok

on Jun. 3 2010 at 4:32 pm
kaileeboo BRONZE, Ravenna, Ohio
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 i no what you mean i am a teen and all i can say is that the best ting to do is not let anyone see that it bugs you and they will stop just hold your head up high and you will make it in life

on Jun. 2 2010 at 10:09 pm
kodabear95 SILVER, Northglenn, Colorado
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Favorite Quote:
Certain things catch the eye, but pursue only the things that capture the heart. - old Indian saying

I totally and completely agree with you. I myself am bi, and I started dating one of my friends, WHO IS A GIRL, and I couldn't be happier. She (my girlfriend) is scared to tell people about us because she's scared of what they'll say. Very few people know she's bi, while I came out last year (although I haven't come out to my family yet). If people can't accept the people I love and want a romantic relationship with, then sucks for them because I'm not changing who I am to make other people happy.

M.W.M. BRONZE said...
on Jun. 1 2010 at 2:08 pm
M.W.M. BRONZE, Undisclosed, New Jersey
4 articles 0 photos 30 comments

Favorite Quote:
"Test everything. Hold on to the good." -Paul of Tarsus (1 Thessalonians 5:21)

exactly =)

on Jun. 1 2010 at 10:44 am
horsegirl27 GOLD, Los Angeles, California
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Favorite Quote:
A dog comes when called; a cat takes a message and gets back to you

1st, I'm Jewish. 2nd, why do you care though?!?!?!?!? It's not you! They don't have anything to do with you! What's a problem?! God created these people! He may have started out with 100% striaght ppl but then he decided it was time for change! I just don't understand whats wrong with it! Twell me! Explain! (Your not gonna change my opinion but I just want to know your side of it)

yeah... said...
on May. 29 2010 at 9:09 pm

first this is not a txt message if your writing a piece then it should not have the detracting abbreviations used in instant messaging

second I think gay/bi relationships are ok but not with teenagers, im one yet Ive come to realize that when your young everything seems like the end of the world.  Most teenage 'bi' relationships are formed out of confusion and hurt by the other sex and those people often go strait later in life.  

Sorry there will be some teen who may be genuinely bi but just remember we still have a lot of growing up to do no matter how much you feel like you know everything.

ta x 

 


on May. 28 2010 at 8:05 pm
horsegirl27 GOLD, Los Angeles, California
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Favorite Quote:
A dog comes when called; a cat takes a message and gets back to you

ps. I'm 100% straight

on May. 28 2010 at 8:02 pm
horsegirl27 GOLD, Los Angeles, California
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Favorite Quote:
A dog comes when called; a cat takes a message and gets back to you

haha! Its an opinion! If you want poems, got o the poem section! lol!

on May. 28 2010 at 8:01 pm
horsegirl27 GOLD, Los Angeles, California
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Favorite Quote:
A dog comes when called; a cat takes a message and gets back to you

Yea! I say just have the government shut up and suck it up! Its not even their problem!

on May. 28 2010 at 8:00 pm
horsegirl27 GOLD, Los Angeles, California
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Favorite Quote:
A dog comes when called; a cat takes a message and gets back to you

Yea! That is so true!

on May. 28 2010 at 7:59 pm
horsegirl27 GOLD, Los Angeles, California
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Favorite Quote:
A dog comes when called; a cat takes a message and gets back to you

I think they are fine too! Its just...the people are nice and all but they like, almost scare me because their different. I don't mean to be that way but its just weird. I think that if your in love, let someone be in love! It doesn't concern you! (Unless your one of those people) Its just gotta be hard for people like that! :(

*MINNI3* said...
on May. 28 2010 at 2:55 pm

I agree with you so much.

I have friends who are lesbian and gay, and i love them just as much as i love my straight friends.

I personally dont think its right.

But i also think people who hate on and victimize gay people aren't doing what's right either. 

I think people who will hold up signs saying 'god hates gays' don't really know god. because what i was taught in sunday school was to love everybody better than i love myself.

i'm not saying im perfect, but i do believe that homosexuality is not what god intended for humans.


M.W.M. BRONZE said...
on May. 28 2010 at 9:01 am
M.W.M. BRONZE, Undisclosed, New Jersey
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Favorite Quote:
"Test everything. Hold on to the good." -Paul of Tarsus (1 Thessalonians 5:21)

Yessss i was gonna post the same thing. thank you!

Nisha Lynn said...
on May. 26 2010 at 9:16 am
i agree! i'm bi myself though were i've lived and been, people dont give a crap about it. but i feel ya. the gov doesnt let my uncle marry his man and it's really retarded :/

M.W.M. BRONZE said...
on May. 22 2010 at 6:28 pm
M.W.M. BRONZE, Undisclosed, New Jersey
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Favorite Quote:
"Test everything. Hold on to the good." -Paul of Tarsus (1 Thessalonians 5:21)

just to ley u know, i respect gay people, and i treat them equally, and I disown those people who hold hateful signs in front of schools and funerals.

im not gay myself, and i believe homosexuality is wrong and i would vote against most legislative attempt to legalize gay marriage.

but please, dont link "tolerance" with "acceptance".

i just want u to know that there are people who believe homosexuality is wrong but still lvoe and respect gay people.

i hope u understand =)


on May. 18 2010 at 5:29 pm
ArtGirl101 BRONZE, West Gardiner, Maine
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Favorite Quote:
"Childhood only lasts so long, so cherish it while it's still in your grasp"
~ ME!!!

Well, I agree with you in some ways. I am straight (I'm kinda young to tell but as far as I know I am) and I don't think that gays/bis should be told what they can do. I don't think that they can choose whether they're gay/bi or not because really, why would they choose to be descriminated and looked down upon?

But I don't think that they should make such a big deal about all this. I believe that if they would stop with all of this "leave us alone we're only human" well, of course you are. But think about it: drugs are illegal, and that makes a lot of people abuse them more. When certain things are pushed and said it's RIGHT (or wrong, depending on what you're talking about) then more people are going to push and say it's WRONG.

See what I mean? Please, I don't want a lot of people screaming their heads off just because I gave my opinion. And I want to make this clear:

I do believe that homosexuals and bisexuals should have the same rights as heterosexuals.

Thank you. That is all I needed to say.

Hugs,

ArtGirl101 


on May. 17 2010 at 5:58 pm
pandabearrrr SILVER, San Pedro, California
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Favorite Quote:
My only regret in life is that I wasn't somebody else.
- Woody Allen

okay just gotta say this -

to everybody, you do not need to tell everyone "well im straight but i still agree" or "well i'm gay so i agree"

sexual orientation should NOT rule people's lives! and it should NOT be such a big deal to people. who the **** cares who people are sleeping with ?

that's called a personal life.

everyone needs to get over the fact that yeah, some people are gay...some people are straight.

 

who you like does not define you.

 


on May. 17 2010 at 5:47 pm
pandabearrrr SILVER, San Pedro, California
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Favorite Quote:
My only regret in life is that I wasn't somebody else.
- Woody Allen

everyone is entitled to their own opinion but everytime you saw a gay friend, saying " You're living in Sin!" is completely disrespectful.

not everybody has the same beliefs and it's really rude to tell people that, it's hard enough as it is to get feel accepted.

and what about people who have been raised religious and are gay? they didn't do that to themselves, they've been raised believing the same thing as you...but it happened anyways. people don't "create" their own gayness, that's just ridiculous.


on May. 17 2010 at 9:50 am
DiamondFortune SILVER, Syracuse, New York
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Favorite Quote:
''If you enter this world knowing that you are loved and you leave knowing the same then everything that happens in between can be dealt with''

if you weren't you should treat gays<etc> with the up most respect