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Gay, Lesbian, bi relationships are okay!!

September 20, 2009
By ~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
"One day there will be a chance that you will say that you love one person and really mean it, but every day one person is at least loving you now." - Me


I don't understand why most people in the world don't like people of the same sex to be in a relationship. I'm bisexual myself and people come up to me and start critizing me because i am, but they dont understand that I'm special in my own way just like other ppl, no matter who they are.

Where I live the main population is gay, lesbian and bi people. In front of my school there are even people writing signs saying "God hates America and Fags are not welcomed here!" I am getting so sick of it! This is making us not want to come out and actually be us.

The government has no right to make laws saying that gays can not be married. God and government does not mix people! Get it straight! Some of yur friends might actually be gay, lesbian or bi, and would u not be there friend because of it? If you would, then you are messed up and not worthy of their friendship.



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essie said...
on Jun. 17 2010 at 11:21 am
i'm a virgin and intend to stay that way til marrage becuz besides my heart what do i have to give my husband?i keep my heart, emotions, love,passion,body everything for him.  cuz i believe God has a plan for us and one person he created us to be for and that person for us.

essie said...
on Jun. 17 2010 at 11:19 am
One way I love people is to TELL them when I think they are getting into deep water.  I think if I truely believe that someone's going to hell because of twisting God's beautiful plan than I'm going to say so. cuz i really care! I cry when I read about this stuff.

essie said...
on Jun. 17 2010 at 11:11 am
well i think it concerns evrybdy cuz little kids in school have to learn it!  i dont want MY kids 2 lern this stuff!truthfully am not ashamed to say that I am a JESUSFREAK  I'm just crazy about people who might miss heaven.  i actually care whether you people miss it. cant condemn til u look it up!  try looking at the Bible with unbiased attention.  and i know i'm gonna get some slurs cuz for this, so a JESUSFREAK can't say the she is one?  that is unfair and intolerance! do you really want to risk 'missing the boat' so to speak?  what if its true...

on Jun. 15 2010 at 1:58 pm
turtleswishing BRONZE, Bradford, Massachusetts
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Favorite Quote:
treat everyone like their on the top even if your on the bottom
-nick jonas

they may have but if someone wants to be with someone then they should be aloud

on Jun. 15 2010 at 1:57 pm
turtleswishing BRONZE, Bradford, Massachusetts
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Favorite Quote:
treat everyone like their on the top even if your on the bottom
-nick jonas

no the bible is wrong u can belive in what u want but let other people belive in what they want

on Jun. 13 2010 at 12:51 pm
~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
"One day there will be a chance that you will say that you love one person and really mean it, but every day one person is at least loving you now." - Me

The guy who is hanging around with those signs is part of the website. His church sent him down to do all of this. We have had many people assult him and they didn't know that he had a camera on him. He wants the citizens to hurt him to tell everyone that this place(where i live) is a place full fo sin.

whatever said...
on Jun. 12 2010 at 3:27 pm
honestly, it is not a choice. cause im bi and i did NOT choose that. i tried to make myself straight, trust me it does int work. thing is that a kid can't control what sexually excites them or who they choose to love. And one of the many interpretations of the bible is that being gay is a sin and its wrong. there are many interpretations. is just that since people found it to be "wrong" and "disgusting" that they just accepted the interpretation that went along to their beliefs. everyone does it. i do it to. but what im saying here is that, if i could not be bi, i would int be for the simple reason because its hard to be. i have to hide who i am everyday just so that they don't send me to a hermaphodite camp where they do ridicoulous things to "straighten you up". and there is nothing different about the "gay" lifestyle. its the same things as being straight except that you are in love with the same sex. its not like we all walk around praising how gay or bi we are.

bluespark13 said...
on Jun. 11 2010 at 8:23 am
but i do agree with emilyjoe it is a sin 

bluespark13 said...
on Jun. 11 2010 at 8:22 am
um im not a lesbian and im not bi and we don't believe in that in my religion but i would never judge a person because they are gay or bi...girlz think gay guys r awsome anyway :P

JWVon BRONZE said...
on Jun. 9 2010 at 10:59 pm
JWVon BRONZE, Atascadero, California
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Favorite Quote:
"So this leads me to my camera, which was hidden with my phone but was found and put here, so it's useless." - my cousin when we went on a National Treasure-esque hunt to find her phone.

Well it's not like.....how to phrase it...well it's like subconciously. Yeah I'm a girl and I like guys and I get where you're coming from.

gaga-fan28 said...
on Jun. 9 2010 at 10:52 pm
You're right, Alli97. Opinions based on fallacies are so much better.

Sarbear GOLD said...
on Jun. 9 2010 at 7:30 pm
Sarbear GOLD, Milan, Ohio
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Favorite Quote:
--Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away from them and you have their shoes.
--When life gives you lemons, squirt them in people's eyes.

ive never heard it put that way but your absolutely right. i believe it's more of a choice but who are we to judge them?

on Jun. 9 2010 at 5:43 pm
allisonl97 BRONZE, =), Wisconsin
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I dont really have a fav quote

it isnt all about the facts...i agree w/ once_a_redhead

on Jun. 9 2010 at 5:37 pm
allisonl97 BRONZE, =), Wisconsin
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I dont really have a fav quote

yeah sorry...nooooo....i totally disagree w/this...i really dont think that everyone is bi...that is totally not correct...i know for a complete fact that i am not bi

JWVon BRONZE said...
on Jun. 6 2010 at 7:08 pm
JWVon BRONZE, Atascadero, California
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Favorite Quote:
"So this leads me to my camera, which was hidden with my phone but was found and put here, so it's useless." - my cousin when we went on a National Treasure-esque hunt to find her phone.

I personally believe everyone is bi at heart but leans more to one side or just stays the true def. of bi. Being bi/gay/lesbian isn't bad but people oddly enough think it is. I think it's highly unfair, all the discrimination against gays/bis/lesbians. They are people and should be treated as such. It shouldn't be considered "bad" if you like the same sex.

ImaniA SILVER said...
on Jun. 4 2010 at 12:26 pm
ImaniA SILVER, Charlotte, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. “

"My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return."

Hi, thanks for you opinion

As a religious person and just as a person really, I don't believe gays, lesbians, what-have-you should be married because marriage is not only for companionship but also for procreation. That isn't possible with homosexual couples. However, if someone is gay I don't agree that they should be persecuted for it. Someone should be able to talk to you about in a calm and accepting way. I have friends that are bisexual and although I don't agree with their lifestyle they are still good people. As for me, if I thought I was homosexual I would pray that God helps me to understand myself and to be brave to do exactly what is in His will which is not to be homosexual.


csgiants said...
on Jun. 3 2010 at 9:03 pm
Thats stupid! God made man and woman for a reason.

TheJust ELITE said...
on Jun. 3 2010 at 8:11 pm
TheJust ELITE, Ellenton, Florida
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"I feel that a hero is somebody who will stand up for their values and what they believe in and that can take any form. People that have values and have thought them through rather than those who just do what they’re told."-Skandar Keynes

"When it’

I'm not talking "religious" I'm talking Christian. And saying you're living in sin is not a sin. Jesus told the Christians to tell others of sin in their lives. And people who were raised "religious"  and believe being gay is ok, obviously have never read their Bible. One of the main reasons God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah is due to the fact the men were gay.

Gen 19:4  ...the men of the city, even the men of Sodom, compassed the house round, both old and young, all the people from every quarter:  Gen 19:5  And they called unto Lot, and said unto him, Where are the men which came in to thee this night? bring them out unto us, that we may know (have sex with) them.

If God destroyed two cities due to homosexuality, what makes you think it's ok for American's to gay? And homosexuality is NOT the way you are, it's the way society MADE you. YOU make the choice to be gay, God created marriage to be between a man and a woman. Look at nature: if God created some to be gay, why would wolves and eagles, and other animals that mate for life, how come they aren't gay? And if God created people to be gay, don't you think He'd be smart enough to create a way for men and men, and woman and woman to have children? It's simply common sense.

gaga-fan28 said...
on Jun. 3 2010 at 7:01 pm
once_a_readhead, your comment has no basis in fact. There are no more STD's or STI's in homosexual or bisexual relationships than there are in heterosexual relationships. I have no idea where you got the idea to link being gay with getting "diseases that make you sick or die at a young age." HIV/AIDS were once linked to homosexuality, but people of any sexual orientation can get it. And nobody's trying to box in your Christian ideas or keep you from voicing your opinion, if they are, like you said, you have the right to speak up, so go ahead. I just want to suggest that you have facts and not fallacies to support your beliefs.

on Jun. 3 2010 at 7:00 pm
Sill_Sitter11 BRONZE, Milan, Ohio
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Favorite Quote:
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

I don't have anything against bi or gay/lesbian people. It's their descision. BUT, God created us to marry the opposite sex. It's even in the bible. So what's the thing that comes down to it is whether your happiness now matters more to your way to heaven. It's your descision and no one can make it for you.