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Gay, Lesbian, bi relationships are okay!!

September 20, 2009
By ~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
"One day there will be a chance that you will say that you love one person and really mean it, but every day one person is at least loving you now." - Me

I don't understand why most people in the world don't like people of the same sex to be in a relationship. I'm bisexual myself and people come up to me and start critizing me because i am, but they dont understand that I'm special in my own way just like other ppl, no matter who they are.

Where I live the main population is gay, lesbian and bi people. In front of my school there are even people writing signs saying "God hates America and Fags are not welcomed here!" I am getting so sick of it! This is making us not want to come out and actually be us.

The government has no right to make laws saying that gays can not be married. God and government does not mix people! Get it straight! Some of yur friends might actually be gay, lesbian or bi, and would u not be there friend because of it? If you would, then you are messed up and not worthy of their friendship.

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teresa17 said...
on Oct. 15 2010 at 2:00 pm
I totally agree. Im straight but i have lesbian and gay friends and i hate when people critize them. i dont see anything wrong with them getting married. I mean seriously if u dont like gays then thats all up to you but who are you to tell them to do with your life? you have no say in who they love or who they choose to be with. and if they love them enough to marry them they why not!!!!!!!!?

Dimples said...
on Oct. 15 2010 at 1:52 pm
Love is love... Its doesn't matter if two guys or two girls are in a relationship. if your gay, your gay. get over it. why hate on gays? what if your family members are gay? are you gonna hate them for being who they are? I dont think so. You would support them. So support those who arent straight.

Dimples said...
on Oct. 15 2010 at 1:47 pm
To me,love islove. It dowsnt matter if you two guys or two girls in a relationship, if thats what you like then just be yourself. Alot of people hate the gay guys or the lesbians, but you cant change who you are.

on Oct. 15 2010 at 1:03 pm
OpenDoors SILVER, Laramie, Wyoming
6 articles 1 photo 12 comments

Favorite Quote:
" Darker the night Brighter the day, Feirser the Fight, Stronger the Faith."

I competely agree with everything your saying, I also am bi and when i hear people talking crap on us like were not humans is just not right. It aslo seems to kill a little part of my sprit when I hear those things, i dont know about you though wither you feel the same or not.

on Oct. 14 2010 at 8:54 pm
RawyaAviva SILVER, Tuolumne, California
9 articles 0 photos 34 comments

Favorite Quote:
"I wake up every morning determined to change the world and have one heck of a good time . Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult."-E. B. White

I am a christian and as I believe the word of God I believe such relationships go against my morals. But I love gay/bi/lesbian people. They are humans just like us and we need to love them and each other. The problem is that the church has become to legalistic. They have forgotten Jesus died on the cross to show his LOVE..not his judgement. We are not here to judge . We are here to spread the love Of Jesus(my belief) and make the world a better place. So I do not agree with such relationships but the hate and judgement aimed at such people is as evil as people are saying the people who have such a relationships. Even any one tells you that "God hates you and you are going to go to hell for being gay/lesbian/bi/ etc" they are hypocrites and have apparently misenterpreted the word of God. They are misguided humans and sinners like the rest of us. <#

on Oct. 13 2010 at 9:17 pm
Rainbowmadhatter, Reno, Nevada
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i think... and this is just MY opinion... i thinkl that bi lesbian and gay relationships are alright that is what makes the happy they are in thier happy place mabey God didnt creat us like this but that is what makes them happy so be it... its like sayin a guy and a girl cant be together because of certian reasons like they arent alikeand stuff like that

Ameezy BRONZE said...
on Oct. 13 2010 at 7:45 pm
Ameezy BRONZE, Amory, Mississippi
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I feel the same way about this! Im straight but I dont see the problem in same sex relationships. They arent hurting me so why does it matter? God does love you and dont let anyone tell you any other way. I hate see my gay friends hurt or put down because of hateful people. Its their life not yours. Stop bothering them. I dont think its right that same sex can not marry. What the freak is up with that? Its stupid. The government doesnt even need to interfere it just keeps encouraging the hate against same sex. Hopefully in the future same sex relationships will just be a part of every day life like the racism is now. Im sorry for the hate.

whocares said...
on Oct. 13 2010 at 3:31 pm
if people want to be gay let them be gay its there choice and not anyone elses and the people with signs can go fuck them selves bc america is great and they aren't god so they can't speak for him

on Oct. 13 2010 at 3:05 pm
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on Oct. 6 2010 at 7:37 pm
GreenBallerina GOLD, Pelham, Alabama
11 articles 2 photos 3 comments

Favorite Quote:
"All glory comes from daring to begin. "
Ware, Eugene F.

"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It is already tomorrow in Australia." ~Charles Schulz

The government should never interfer with personal matters such as same-sex marriage etc. I am a huge gay activist and have struggled with personal issues of my own. To have the government say being gay, lesbien, or bi is wrong, then america is not living up to the founding father's view for us. "One Nation" for "Liberty and Justioce for All."

on Oct. 5 2010 at 2:01 pm
themonstersinsideme PLATINUM, Waterboro, Maine
26 articles 0 photos 11 comments

Favorite Quote:
"People may walk out the door, but they leave it open for someone else to walk in" <3

I don't understand why people feel like they need to make it impossible for gays/lesbians to get married... How is it affecting you, really? I'm straight, and have nothing against people that aren't. I strongly believe that gays/lesbians should be allowed equal rights like the rest of us! They're human beings, for crying out loud! Let them do what they want, if you think they're gunna like "Go to hell" or something for being themselves, than so be it, think that. But dont not let them be able to love who they please. I believe that God doesn't want us to hate anybody... I hope that someday people realize the wrong they are doing by not allowing gays/lesbians to get married....

on Oct. 2 2010 at 8:07 pm
jesus_lover98 SILVER, Millington, Tennessee
9 articles 0 photos 11 comments

Favorite Quote:
you have to get through the storm to see the rainbow :)

im so sick of this.

apparently america has taken it upon its self to be the most hateful nation ever.and no, i am NOT taking anybodies side.

i am a christian and i myself strongly believe it is not write for a girl to kiss a girl.

and i do not believe that it isnt a choice. it verry much so is.

and the black-against-white thing is completely unecisary.


on Sep. 21 2010 at 9:47 pm
ChuzzyBear BRONZE, Mapleton Depot, Pennsylvania
3 articles 0 photos 4 comments

Favorite Quote:
"You have my heart in your hands please dont drop it; its been reglued alot but I think its holding now."-my boyfriend

The whole bi, lesbians, and gays dont belong thing really angers me. It takes alot for people to admit that...and nobody truly understands that. Most of my friends are bi and I feel the same about them since the day that they told me...people have the right to fall in love with who they want. They can't control love or what people feel so I say scew what others say and just be who you are because deep down their insecurity with bis or gays or lesbians is coming from a source and they just need to get over it. Love is love and nothing can stop that feeling or those emotions, and people are people and they are going to be who they want to be.

on Sep. 21 2010 at 7:32 pm
Carmella_Hastings GOLD, Atlanta, Georgia
10 articles 1 photo 28 comments

Favorite Quote:
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." -Walt Emerson

everyone should have a chance to express themselves. while i don't agree that bi relationships are preferable- my religion and all- i do believe with tawny_2011 when you say that love is a beautiful thing no matter what. Plus, bi people cannot help what they feel- it's how God made them and I think it's wrong for people to criticize people like that

on Sep. 15 2010 at 7:36 pm
tawny_2011 SILVER, Inez, Kentucky
6 articles 0 photos 7 comments

Favorite Quote:
"Everyone is gonna hurt you. You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."

Piglet: "How do you spell love"
Pooh: "You don't spell feel it" <3

Thank you!! =]]


Photo_97 said...
on Sep. 14 2010 at 3:24 pm
Photo_97, Ct., Connecticut
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Right on! i agree with you 100% and i think the world needs more people like you to speek out,and speek the truth!!

on Sep. 8 2010 at 8:11 pm
SamiLynn PLATINUM, Anthem, Arizona
20 articles 9 photos 137 comments

Favorite Quote:
"The unexamined life is not worth living." ~Socrates

so true! btw i love the way u spell "like" lyk lol :D

on Aug. 30 2010 at 6:22 pm
tawny_2011 SILVER, Inez, Kentucky
6 articles 0 photos 7 comments

Favorite Quote:
"Everyone is gonna hurt you. You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."

Piglet: "How do you spell love"
Pooh: "You don't spell feel it" <3

I agree <3

Sure...I have my preferences in some aspects of a relationship...

But I want someone because of who they are and not what they have, and that makes every part of a relationship worth it to me.

People fall in matter what gender they are. Its a beautiful thing. And I one has any right to tell them what they feel is wrong.


on Aug. 21 2010 at 8:14 am
brokendreamer GOLD, Otis, Maine
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Harsh ashleen.....harsh

KatB14 SILVER said...
on Aug. 20 2010 at 9:08 pm
KatB14 SILVER, Chesapeake, Virginia
8 articles 0 photos 41 comments

Favorite Quote:
"You don't always get the waterfall short-cut in Mario-Kart. That's life."-I.P.

"Doubt thou the stars are fire; Doubt that the sun doth move; Doubt truth to be a liar; But never doubt I love." -Hamlet

AMEN brother!