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Breakup Advice

September 24, 2009
By Anonymous

After those amazing relationships end, you have to ask yourself how things will continue. If you broke up with your partner, you must either be unhappy with them, mad at them, tired of them, or some other circumstance. So, if it is you who breaks up with the other, stop and think. As one single person, you don't have any idea what the other might go through. One moment to you is completely different that that of another. For example, you might go on a date and have the time of your life, oblivious to that fact that the one you care for is about to slit their wrists in boredom.
Just and example.
But that is something that you can relate to a breakup. You might think that things are better off without the other. They might be tripping and falling behind you, trying to catch up and get you back. It happens a lot, and these breakups are the worst. I myself went through one. And I've scraped my knees so much over these past to years tripping and falling after her(yes, two years. She's so beautiful I can't stop thinking about her). I've found out the the first and most important thing you can do to stay out of those horrible, bad break ups, is to forget. Easier said then done, right? Well, there is only one way to completely get over such a thing. Overwrite the memories that the two of you shared. Now, people call this a rebound, but isn't every boyfriend/girlfriend after the first a rebound? You must make better memories with this person. Have a greater time, and think about the new things you share rather then all the things you used to share with the other. Take it from me, with time, almost everything is mendable.


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on Jan. 21 2010 at 11:00 am
jordan<3 BRONZE, Trout Run, Pennsylvania
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"And the mockingbird told me, I change with the seasons and so she was leaving town in a few days now." - chase coy<3

Definitely true, I love this.

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on Jan. 20 2010 at 11:25 pm
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

haha well, maybe you can search it, or you can look at my profile and find it under works by me

ZiRaww! SILVER said...
on Jan. 20 2010 at 7:14 pm
ZiRaww! SILVER, Phoenix, Arizona
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Favorite Quote:
“Giving up doesn’t always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. ”

How do i find it?

on Jan. 20 2010 at 2:52 pm
EHunt96 PLATINUM, Swampscott, Massachusetts
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Favorite Quote:
"Never give up on something you can't go a day without thinking about."

haha thnx soo much!!!!

I can't wait to read it!!!!!!

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on Jan. 20 2010 at 10:56 am
TamaraN PLATINUM, Kalispell, Montana
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umm idk well u could do like trying to get out of a relashionship with a person who isnt good for u but u feel like u love them and uu just dont know how to get out

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:23 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

and aren't we all just a tad bit insane? (sam grins)

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:22 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Breakup Advice (the Second) is posted! check it out if you want to hear my opinions of a few more different relationship worries.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:21 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Breakup Advice (the Second) is posted! check it out if you want to hear my opinions of a few more different relationship worries.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:21 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Breakup Advice (the Second) is posted! check it out if you want to hear my opinions of a few more different relationship worries.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:20 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Breakup Advice (the Second) is posted! check it out if you want to hear my opinions of a few more different relationship worries.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:20 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Breakup Advice (the Second) is posted! check it out if you want to hear my opinions of a few more different relationship worries.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:19 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Breakup Advice (the Second) is posted! check it out if you want to hear my opinions of a few more different relationship worries.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:19 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Breakup Advice (the Second) is posted! check it out if you want to hear my opinions of a few more different relationship worries.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:18 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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Favorite Quote:
"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

Breakup Advice (the Second) is posted! check it out if you want to hear my opinions of a few more different relationship worries.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:17 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

thanks! i wrote a second one that was just recently posted. It's called Breakup Advice (the Second) hhaha. give it a look if you want. I wrote it based on peoples opinions for a second.

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:14 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

ha it ok. i'm just messin'

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:13 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

i don't mind my screen name, but my real name as anonymous. but i k what u mean aha

on Jan. 20 2010 at 12:12 am
White_Shadow BRONZE, Putnam, Illinois
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"A life without cause is a life without effect." - Unknown

haha ya :)

ZiRaww! SILVER said...
on Jan. 19 2010 at 3:49 pm
ZiRaww! SILVER, Phoenix, Arizona
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Favorite Quote:
“Giving up doesn’t always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. ”

It is in my part... But hey... I'm trying! ;]]

on Jan. 19 2010 at 12:23 pm
socrprncss12 SILVER, Weslaco, Texas
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With God, Anything is Possible

yes,this is definitely true.i've had so many heartbreaks and some guys dont understand the problems i go through and with a break up it just adds another problem.in a new relationship i've done what you would say is a "rebound" because i try to make it last longer than the previous and do things different.love your story