Why would someone harm the person they love? People all over the world will harm their wife, people everywhere are hurting the one they love because they did something that they didn't like.
    The women and children that are being forced like slaves and being beaten when they do one little thing that doesn't matter wrong. Its Murder in a way, its inhumane, the one who is beating their loved one must know that pain that is felt.
Just because someone wants to have complete control in the relationship it gives them no right to harm the other person in the relationship, there are ways to talk about things that you want without hurting your partner.
Nobody can imagine the pain that some people have to go through everyday, the pain that they endure because they are too scared to leave.