I grew up without my dad in my life whatsoever until I was about 15 years old. Even then I thought that maybe he just didn't know about me; I was wrong to think that maybe just maybe he wanted to know more about me as I did him... Well I guess that's why they call them dreams. It's all in our heads and usually won't come true. I've known who my dad is for about 4 years now and still I know very little about him and much less the other half of myself. So if you are a father or a mother of a child that you've never had anything to do with just for your benefit then I can tell you that you don't know what you're missing because every child is a blessing no matter what the past of the child or of the parents of the child may be...Every child is a blessing.