That moment when you realize the flower you thought had overgrown,had never even bloomed and the time you wasted making sure the flower lived, you can never get back so you cut the flower at the stem and watch it die just to get through your head that the whole thing-the connection you had with the flower was never real and you sat through its whole life wondering, worrying if it was growing right,and it wasn't, yet you continued to feel distressed about the fact that you let it die ,and at that point you noticed that if you let it die , you could have alternatively let it live