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"That's So BULLYING!"

November 16, 2009
By -alice- PLATINUM, Colorado Springs, Colorado
-alice- PLATINUM, Colorado Springs, Colorado
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I care very little if I am judged by you or any other human court; indeed I do not even judge myself. My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me. -1 Corinthians 4:3-4


Look around you. Try and count the number of people out there that are kissing, hugging, or using some other form of PDA to show some form of affection towards someone else. Kind of a high number, right? Now, fish out the people that are kissing someone of the same gender. That’s a lower number, isn’t it? Why do you think that is? Maybe it’s because of slang comments like “That’s so gay!” that are being used as slang on a day to day basis.

The average number of teens in America that say “that’s so gay” is higher than most any other saying. That’s pretty crazy considering us teens say A LOT of stuff! But let me ask you this: what if somebody came up to you and said, “Oh my gosh, that’s so negro” or “That’s so Hispanic.” What about, “Oh my gosh, your hair is so a Twilight lover” or “That is so some guy who wears his shirt tucked in!” How would you feel if someone came around and said something about your race, religion, or interests in an insulting way? Personally, I don’t see how saying “That’s so gay” is different than saying any of the above comments. Nobody goes around saying “That’s so (insert religion, race, or interest)!” At least I hope not!

So the bottom line of this article, if you felt like reading it, was that saying “That’s so gay!” is a horrible, offensive comment that we should stop saying. Anything you can do to prevent your friends and family members from saying “That’s so gay!” Seriously, it’s wrong.


The author's comments:
I'm not gay, lesbian, or trans gender, but I am a firm believer in the thinkb4youspeak commitment and I love that so many people stand behind me on this. So thank you.

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KellyR GOLD said...
on Jan. 20 2010 at 2:40 pm
KellyR GOLD, Richmond, Virginia
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We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.

Personnaly I'm all for gay rights. I try and not say anything like thats so gay because it could hurt someones feelings but I just don't feel offended thinking of somone running up to me and saying Thats so *insert something about me here* I even came up with examples and it just doesn't offend me. I just see it as another word for stupid. I still don't like to say it because I don't want to hurt anyones feelings.

on Dec. 29 2009 at 4:14 pm
morgie7<3 PLATINUM, Tremont, Illinois
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&quot;I&#039;ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I&#039;ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I&#039;ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I&#039;ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.&quot;<br /> ~Michael Jordan

Wow!!! I've never really thought about it like that, but you're so right! i'm not gay or lesbian either, but if someone went around inserting something I believed in or enjoyed for the word 'gay' that is so commonly used now, I would too be offended. I can't imagine how the homosexuals must feel about this phrase. Anyway...good work!

on Dec. 3 2009 at 8:38 pm
-alice- PLATINUM, Colorado Springs, Colorado
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I care very little if I am judged by you or any other human court; indeed I do not even judge myself. My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me. -1 Corinthians 4:3-4

I didn't realize how many people said it until I vowed not to say it anymore. Everyone in my school says it and when I ask them to stop it's like "why, are you offended?" then they laugh.

on Dec. 2 2009 at 8:33 pm
caitlin.calamity BRONZE, Houston, Texas
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Action and reaction, ebb and flow, trial and error, change - this is the rhythm of living. Out of our over-confidence, fear; out of our fear, clearer vision, fresh hope. And out of hope, progress. <br /> -Bruce Barton

I totally agree with you. I rarely ever say it, and when I do it's directed at my gay friend just because it's a funny joke between us. Some people just don't care about other people's feelings. It honestly makes me sad to think how far the human race has advanced but we still can't be nice to people we don't even know.